Sisters, I’m not going to toss you a rule and not show you how it’s done. So I actually got back in the trenches just for you! This first video I made with an up and coming Canadian superstar (and can I say this? A hottie?!) He’s a prominent writer and entertainment contributor on CBC, and a few days after our “date” he wrestled David Arquette. For real. Well, wrestling real.
Anyway, this video is what your typical first dates, or first “conversation instead of a kiss”, will look like when you bring up your new No Kissing for 3 months rule. Does he freak out a bit? Of course he does! Pretty much almost all men will. But learn how to answer his questions and concerns, because they’re valid. And learn what a No Kissing rule actually means, for the both of you. Then, ask your questions below! This is going to be a biggie!
Next up, is the sort of conversation you might be facing when the person talking to you cares more about their timeframe than yours. I’m not going to let you flounder through the more difficult conversations, Sister!
That’s why I had THIS conversation, so you can see how those harder ones pan out, and how you can effectively deal with them without losing your mind. Here, you’ll understand how to deal with someone who’s coming at you with a completely closed mind. Grab some popcorn and enjoy…
I hope you not only had fun, but you learned how to ask for what you need when you’re dating – time and space to learn who this new guy is before you lock yourself in! Luck and intuition aside, this is the #1 way you’ll get into what you want – a long term relationship with someone who is super devoted, amazingly awesome, and loves you for who you are.
Now if you want to learn more on how to go from A to Z with someone incredible you’ll want to grab a copy of my book, No More Assholes. Because I agree… If Mamma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy. So learn how to let him know you’re waiting 3 months to find out if he’s right for you, and give him an opportunity to show you who he is BEFORE you tie his mouth up with yours. Namaste my Sisters!
Chantal Heide is an Author and Motivational Speaker, focusing on dating and relationship building. Her books Dating 101, Comeback Queen, Fake Love Need Not Apply, No More Assholes, After The First Kiss, Fix That Shit, Say Yes To Goodness, and Custom Made (available on this website, Amazon, and your favourite online book retailer) . View her BOOKS page for more information. Be sure to sign up for her mailing list (scroll all the way to the bottom to join, and get a free book!) and check out more free advice on Facebook, YouTube, and Itunes, as well as fun tidbits about her life on Instagram and Twitter.