When Defining My Relationship, I Use One Word: Happy
But I had to learn to stop choosing the wrong person to get here. If you’re tired of:
■ Ending up with toxic guys
■ Dealing with insensitivity
■ Starting over
Then it’s time for you to understand that the road to a healthy , long lasting, and happy relationship depends on who you choose, not who chooses you.
Over and over women ask me, “We’ve been dating for months and he hasn’t made it official, how do I bring this up?” This questions shows me just how disempowered women are when it comes to dating. It’s like we don’t have a say about when commitment happens!
Well, it’s time we changed that.
Setting the pace for dating helps you clear your space of time wasters so men who actually want a committed, long lasting relationship and share your goals and timelines can find you.
Unfortunately our current dating structure puts women in the position of kissing strangers and HOPING they’re who she’s looking for. But what if he’s not? How many months, or years did she waste?
The fact is Generous Long Term Thinkers (AKA Men) will never get a chance with you if you’re always distracted by Selfish, Short Term Thinkers (AKA Guys). We need to clear the way and give MEN a chance to show us who they are by getting the GUYS out of the way!
But how do you do that? By using a No Kissing For 3 Months Dating Rule, and understanding the 12 Character Traits that you need to find in a partner in order to have the healthy relationship you want.
No more wasting time. No more unhappy relationships. No more feeling used by Guys who said they wanted a relationship, but in fact only wanted sex.
No more getting played.
If you’re ready to use a powerful dating tool that puts the decision making in the palm of your hand, then it’s time to learn how to weed out the Guys so the Men can find their way to your heart.
Nobody’s going to wait 3 months for a kiss…
Says who? The impatient Guys? The impulsive Guys? The ones who don’t care about who you are? The ones who don’t want you to know who they are?
Your first red flag is his negative reaction to you wanting to use logic to choose the partner thats right for you. Don’t believe the lies and BS toxic, selfish, short term thinkers will try to scare you with when you use this rule.
Fear and coercion never belongs in the dating world.
If he’s signalling that getting to know you isn’t as important as what he’ll get from you, you need to think about that. Are you looking for a hook up? Then knowledge and insight about who the person is doesn’t really matter. Just if you find them attractive, and if you trust them enough for a one night stand or a FWB situation.
But if you’re looking for a future husband/long term partner, future baby daddy, future person you’ll buy a home with, shouldn’t you know more about them before you kiss and have sex, and develop feelings? Why become emotionally involved before getting the data? Why not get the data first, and kiss the right one?
Think about the characteristics you need in a long term partner:
Don’t pick a stranger and hope he embodies what you need. It’s a new age of dating, and time for us to know if they have the right traits before we kiss them, cause kissing toads is so last year.
Won’t that mean a lot of Guys will walk away?
Absolutely. And that’s the point. We want the time wasters, the ones who don’t have the qualities we need to take themselves out of the equation.
Guys who are looking for someone to use and control, instead of someone to love, cherish, and support, hate this rule. And that’s what we love about it.
The Monthly Live “Dating For Lasting Love” Class Overview Includes:
What can you expect to learn from the live class?
■ The No Kiss Rule: Learn the science behind it, and how it makes dating feel so much easier
■ How To Introduce It: Make sure you bring this rule up the right way, and avoid that horrible feeling of rejection
■ First Date Tips: Make your first dates super easy! They should be a vibe check, so learn how to learn about each other with ease
■ 12 Character Traits: What should you be looking for if they make it past the first few dates, and things look promising?
■ Q & A: Let’s get your questions about this rule answered!
When is the live class?
The first Thursday of every month
8pm – 9:30 pm Eastern Time
Your Zoom Room link will be sent to you once you purchase your spot!
Let’s open the door to deeply loving and lasting relationships together. I’m here to walk side-by-side with you on this journey!
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The online dating world is filled with lies.
How will you find the one partner who’s ready to give the love you’re looking for?
By following the 7-step formula in Fake Love Need Not Apply, you can exit toxic relationships, and get a crystal clear idea of what pitfalls and red flags to look for, so you can see them a mile away!