June 11, 2018

Online Dating – How To Cut Through The Bullsh*t And Optimize Your Experience

Before you log off that dating app (or throw your phone against the wall in disgust) let me give you hope. There ARE some pretty awesome […]
April 1, 2019

How A “No Kissing For 3 Months” Rule Helped Me Finally Choose The Right Man

Boy, did I ever have my share of mistakes. My first love was someone my whole family hated. “He’s such an asshole!” my sister kept saying. […]
June 11, 2015

What’s on your Mind: Dating in your 30s

Mind and Heart: Blogging about the Science of Love – By Catherine Muss Thirty-somethings typically have the same ambitions; great job, lots of money, settle down. […]
April 3, 2019

What Does a Spiritual Connection Feel Like?

What Does a Spiritual Connection Feel Like? by Chantal Heide Wouldn’t it be amazing to be in love with someone who leaves you with zero doubt […]
October 23, 2015

When It Comes To Relationships, Fight To Win

Date Night or Fight Night? You Can Have It All! By Catherine Muss   If arguing is a release of pent up emotion, and it’s healthier […]
November 14, 2016

How to Approach Dating When You Have Depression

By Catherine Muss So you’ve been to the doctor and received your depression diagnosis. Part of you is relieved to know what’s going on inside your […]
December 8, 2015

Why Are Women Calling Women Bitch?

I love contributing to advice columns where readers get to weight in and offer their own two cents; the insight they give me into the collective […]
April 1, 2019

I’m Not Pretty Enough To Find Love

Dear Chantal, I hate to say this out loud, but I really don’t think I’m pretty enough to find love. I’m in my late 30’s and […]
April 4, 2019

Why Do Guys Get Cold Feet Soon After Starting A Relationship?

Dear Chantal, I just got out of a two-month relationship that started out pretty hot and heavy but fizzled right after we started saying “I love […]
November 28, 2016

This Is Your Brain On Issues – Decoding a Woman’s Relationship Mind

By Chantal Heide What wouldn’t you give to be able to open your head and put your brain on the table so you could walk away […]
July 11, 2018

How To Say Goodbye And Mean It

By Loreque Fearon Hello again! I know it’s been a while, because everything has been very busy and hectic, but I have always been brainstorming new […]
April 13, 2016

KNOW How Valuable You Are…(best relationship tool ever)

… And never EVER let a guy determine your value. Too many women are unconscious of all the great qualities they bring to a relationship because […]
April 24, 2017

I’m Tired Of Just Finding Jerks Online

Dear Chantal, HELP! I’m so tired of online dating. It’s not that I don’t get responses to my profile, it’s that every guy I talk to […]
March 5, 2018

How to Love… Yourself

How to Love… Yourself Growing up I wasn’t taught much about self-care and its importance, but as time progresses it has worked its way into our […]
July 19, 2016

Dating After Divorce: The First Steps

Dating After Divorce: The First Steps By Catherine Muss   Dating after divorce is a stressfully gargantuan step. One on hand it marks the clear end […]
March 17, 2019

Why Do Guys Get Cold Feet In A Relationship?

Dear Chantal, I just got dumped after a two-month relationship that started out pretty hot and heavy but fizzled right after we started saying “I love […]
October 10, 2015

Why Is Breaking Up Hard To Do?

Why is breaking up hard to do?   You’ve been dating this guy for a while. It’s not the blissful union you envisioned after that first […]
August 21, 2015

Are Men More Sensitive Than Woman? Well, Yes

Short answer…yes. And some of you know this already, that’s why the term “manpanties” is floating around out there. But what most of you don’t know is […]
September 8, 2015

Three Factors For a Thriving Relationship

Three Factors for a Thriving Relationship There are three things a good relationship can’t be good without. Okay, maybe, but good, probably not. Here they are: […]
February 11, 2016

Single Ladies Fear Not the Lonesome Valentine’s Day!

Single Ladies Fear Not the Lonesome Valentine’s Day! Valentine’s Day is almost here! Hearts are literally everywhere, sweet messages of love and devotion litter every social […]
March 1, 2016

Why you said “yes” to going out with a guy you weren’t into (and how not to do that again!)

By Catherine Muss So, you met this guy. There’s nothing wrong with him, but you didn’t feel any spark. You didn’t wonder what scintillating conversation you […]
April 3, 2017

I’m Sick of Being Ghosted

Dear Chantal, What’s up with guys who stop texting? My single girlfriends and I have this happen all the time and it’s getting really annoying. We’ll […]
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