I have read tons of “self help” books for the past 40 years. Many of them are redundant rehashes of cliches and and overworked platitudes. This book is a rare treasure that combines originality, personal vignettes, and practical, actionable ideas. Although the primary target is women in search of a sustainable, enchanting relationship, there is a wealth of information that will appeal to men as well. It’s a must read for anyone who is interested in enjoying a mutually satisfying intimate relationship.
The author’s approach to how to succeed in romance is bold and innovative. Her writing style is friendly, personable, engaging – I sometimes got the impression she was writing to me as if she knew me. Her understanding of basic humanity is uncanny. This book is more than challenging and illuminating – it is fun.