16 Jun

My New Boyfriend Spends Too Much Time On His Phone

Dear Chantal I’ve been dating someone for about a month now and I’m questioning whether or not I should keep seeing him. He has a lot of the qualities I’ve been looking for; he’s thoughtful and has given me plenty ...

08 Jun

He Says He’s Not Ready For A Relationship, But He’s Perfect!

Dear Chantal I met a guy, and he’s perfect! He’s handsome, successful, hardworking, kind, and funny. He’s a single dad and takes good care of his 11 year old daughter, co-parenting well with her mom. He’s really everything I’ve wanted, ...

25 May

What Can I Do About His Rude Kids?

Dear Chantal We met at a book signing in February at Indigo in Toronto, where I bought a copy of No More Assholes. I read your book and followed your advice, and found a great man! He is divorced, and has ...

17 May

When Is It Time To Start Dating After Divorce? (Or Death Of A Spouse)

Dear Chantal, It’s been a year since my divorce and I’m starting to feel like I might be ready to start dating. I’ll be honest, it was not an easy divorce by any means and it’s still difficult at times. ...

08 May

I Found My Friends Husband on Tinder. Do I Tell Her He’s a Cheat?

Dear Chantal, I’m single and am using multiple dating sites to try and find The One. One of the dating apps I’m using is Tinder, and last week I was scrolling through and saw my friend’s husband on there. He’s ...

01 May

Can A Relationship Feel Spiritual?

Dear Chantal I keep hearing about “spiritual connections” in relationships and I’m wondering if something like that actually exists. I’m currently single and looking for “the one,” and I want something that feels very deep and connected, because it feels ...

24 Apr

I’m Tired Of Just Finding Jerks Online

Dear Chantal, HELP! I’m so tired of online dating. It’s not that I don’t get responses to my profile, it’s that every guy I talk to ends up being a jerk! Everyone seems great at first, they’ll be really sweet ...

17 Apr

The Person I Love Keeps Going Back To Their Abusive Ex

Dear Chantal, I’m in a relationship with a wonderful woman, however before me she was in an abusive 4 year on and off relationship. We have had some absolutely wonderful and amazing times, full of love and romance, but whenever ...

10 Apr

How Do I Take This From “Seeing Each Other” to “Committed Relationship?”

Dear Chantal I have been dating this guy for about 4 months. All is great, we have fun and have a wonderful connection. We plan dates in the future and get excited to see each other. He has not asked ...

03 Apr

I’m sick of being ghosted

Dear Chantal, What’s up with guys who stop texting? My single girlfriends and I have this happen all the time and it’s getting really annoying. We’ll be getting to know someone and then we just don’t hear from them anymore. ...

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